It sounds like you're looking to create a reflective document (likely a PDF) titled something like "Who Will Come to My Funeral When I Die" — a personal inventory or journaling exercise about relationships, legacy, and community.
Who Will Come to My Funeral When I Die
Inner Circle: Spouse or partner, children, parents, and siblings.
Social & Professional: Current and former coworkers, neighbors, and members of clubs or religious groups.
She closed the laptop. She put on her coat. She walked to the coffee shop where the barista had written “have a great day” two years ago. He was still there. His name tag said Nico.